So I just got back from seeing a new dentist and I've been quoted on approximately $12,000 worth of dental work to be done over the next year. My dental insurance isn't great and I am very stressed and overwhelmed. The work includes: a new crown, 4 onlays, a couple of fillings, root scaling/planing, a mouth guard for night time (apparently I grind my teeth), and IV sedation (I have dental anxiety). My last appt with another dentis about 1.5 years ago resulted in the dentist telling me I needed to replace that crown(so I'm not surprised about that part in this current estimate). This new dentist is extremely detailed, thorough-- he breaks his new patient appts into two parts- the first is X-rays and pictures (lots of high tech stuff), then he studies all that stuff, and the next appt a week later is your cleaning and then a 1 hour "treatment plan" session (!!!) NOT with him, but with his wife who is basically the office manager. I called back when I got home to see if they could email me the full 12k invoice/ quote and I was told that they don't do that since there's a lot of "confusing dental jargon" that wouldn't make sense to me. Overall I'm just really uncomfortable about all this. I want a healthy mouth but this seems like a bit much to me. Help!!!! :-( :-(