It's a cost issue as well as fear I'll be over treated. If something hurts long and hard enough I'll go, or if a filling falls out I'll go. I didn't go for a recent toothache which I think was an abscess. It seems to have cleared up and I'm brushing and string flossing at least three times a day plus using a Waterpik once a day, sometimes with antibacterial mouthwash, especially around my wisdom tooth that's partially covered by my gum, where I believe food entered, caused gum irritation, then the toothache and abscess in the molar next to it. I know all about bacteria hanging around after drainage but I'm throwing so much at it that I bet it won't come back. I'm also chewing Xylitol gum, taking vitamin D, drinking more fluoridated water, using CPC mouthwash twice a day, and fluoride mouthwash once a day (I do a mini-brush before the fluoride mouthwash so I actually brush 3-1/2 times a day. I did research and I know it's rare for such a thing to lead a life threatening condition, and I'm taking almost unheard of care of my teeth and gums.
^^^ I didn't really want to go there because I've been there on another forum and heard from dentists who saw a photo of my teeth. I was told I don't have periodontitis. I already made the decision not to see a dentist. I'll either continue with the above regimen or start with a high fluoride toothpaste and omit a couple of steps. I think the high fluoride toothpaste would be better for me because I don't like all the extra chemicals I'm getting from all the products I'm using and I don't like the extra abrasion from the extra brushing, but I'll continue and try to be careful.
Oh, I also bought a thermometer to check my temperature in case the toothache comes back. It's been normal since I started checking.