Hello, I am 56 yo and have been living with bad teeth all my life. I was a neglected child and was never taught to brush properly (among many other things). I had my first checkup at 5 and my milk teeth were so bad that they had to put me into general anesthesia and surgically remove some of the teeth. Between 6 and 8, my front permanent teeth began to stick out outside my milk teeth, especially the upper ones. These milk teeth were later extracted instead of falling out naturally, but had already caused a severe overbite. Practically all my teeth already had caries and fillings by the time I was 12. I'm trying to understand how this all came to be without any plan of intervention to try to salvage some of the damage, and it was probably a combination of neglect from my parents and the fact that my parents kept moving to another city or country every 1 or 2 years. When my wisdom teeth came out, things got even worse because they pushed my front teeth into a jumble. I simply got by with it. I have very thick lips and my mouth was always slightly open at rest, and my lips were always dry and cracked.
About 10 years ago a dentist suggested I had my premolars removed. I was stupid enough to not get a second opinion, because I was very afraid of going to another dentist. After the extractions and the orthodontic treatment I could at least close my mouth properly, but now when I smile you can't really see my teeth if I'm not grinning very broadly.
I've been very unhappy and self-conscious about smiling ever since. I was recommended another dentist who studied the situation, and I got braces to try to pull the teeth forward and maybe have new premolar implants on the lower row. I was in treatment for 18 months and finally got my money back because they hadn't really managed any result. I later went to a supposedly even better dentist, but she said that even with new implants it wouldn't be possible to get my teeth forward significantly, to make them "show" as with a normal set of teeth.
The situation today is that I'm starting to lose molars, many have enormous fillings that are starting to fail after so many years and the teeth crack from top to bottom. I had two extracted last year and probably one more will go soon. The enamel of my teeth is also very deteriorated, and just a couple of days after a cleaning by the dentist they're dark and spotty again from drinking tea and coffee.
Today I still brush and floss and go to checkups, but it's as if my teeth don't exist, I've given up, I'm not sentimentally attached to them and would gladly pull them all out. I'd very much like to be able to smile and see my teeth in a photo with other people, but right now it's like an empty hole between my lips. My fear is that my gums and bones underneath won't permit a set of dentures to look "normal"...
Has anyone had a similar experience, or is there a professional here that has treated a similar case successfully? Any response would be appreciated.
About 10 years ago a dentist suggested I had my premolars removed. I was stupid enough to not get a second opinion, because I was very afraid of going to another dentist. After the extractions and the orthodontic treatment I could at least close my mouth properly, but now when I smile you can't really see my teeth if I'm not grinning very broadly.
I've been very unhappy and self-conscious about smiling ever since. I was recommended another dentist who studied the situation, and I got braces to try to pull the teeth forward and maybe have new premolar implants on the lower row. I was in treatment for 18 months and finally got my money back because they hadn't really managed any result. I later went to a supposedly even better dentist, but she said that even with new implants it wouldn't be possible to get my teeth forward significantly, to make them "show" as with a normal set of teeth.
The situation today is that I'm starting to lose molars, many have enormous fillings that are starting to fail after so many years and the teeth crack from top to bottom. I had two extracted last year and probably one more will go soon. The enamel of my teeth is also very deteriorated, and just a couple of days after a cleaning by the dentist they're dark and spotty again from drinking tea and coffee.
Today I still brush and floss and go to checkups, but it's as if my teeth don't exist, I've given up, I'm not sentimentally attached to them and would gladly pull them all out. I'd very much like to be able to smile and see my teeth in a photo with other people, but right now it's like an empty hole between my lips. My fear is that my gums and bones underneath won't permit a set of dentures to look "normal"...
Has anyone had a similar experience, or is there a professional here that has treated a similar case successfully? Any response would be appreciated.