Controlling husband

[rosav1987]

Current struggle to save my teeth is going downhill. Im at year #2 and fed up. Consulting prosthodontist tomorrow for implant overdentures. Husband has no idea i did tell him im DONE trying to fix my very damaged teeth and gums from a horrible dental experience last year..i feel this ordeal has been dragging too long and emotionally im so done. To me, being done with my teeth gives me.more hope than trying. I found a high rated prosthodontist in my area. I am consulting tomorrow so i can see what can be done as PlanB. Husband is very close minded. He says i will NEVER yank my teeth and that he will leave me. That he will never be with a monster. Im sorry but my mental anguish with this ordeal has been too prolongued and extreme and i feel PlanB will work best for me if I can find the right doctor I can trust. I am planning on going further regardless. He can leave if he wants, hes not the one suffering! He has very good teeth, 0 dental issues, good for him but not for me! He will never understand. I am even willing to divorce him i even told him he NO RIGHT to decide on my body and health!!!! This doctor im consulting does smile in a day same day implants and temporaries so of I decide, he may not notice right away. And when he does, im not scared, true love to the test. I love myself more than i love him! If he was in my position, i would be pushing him to yank them if he wanted to!

 

[Dr M]

Ask your husband to go with to the consultation. Perhaps it is best if the plan is explained to him as well, so that he can understand the current situation and what the treatment plan exactly entails, before just jumping to conclusions.